AA3 – Emotional Needs Audit (ENA)

ENAlogo1Individual needs – you are special

Each of us has a set emotional needs, which when satisfactorily met, mean that we will not suffer from unhealthy stress and all the angst, and the costs that can come with it.

Stressors and their impacts can be different for each of us. After the initial stress assessment, an audit of a person’s emotional needs is the start of making the therapeutic coaching sessions personalised.

Straightforward to use and request

The Emotional Needs Audit (ENA) is a simple and straightforward means to review where you are at currently. Once the tool has been used, not only is the coaching more focused, but you will have a long term means to assess where you are at any future point of time. This enables you to take heathy remedial action, before the stress becomes overwhelming.

The ENA is easy to use. Simply email me with your request on the link below and I will send you a link. All you need do is rate how well you think each emotional need is currently being met in your life by selecting a rank from 1 to 7.

What does it mean?

If, in answering the questions, your scores are mostly low, you are likely to be suffering unhealthy stress with negative impacts. If any question is scored 3 or less this is likely to be a major stressor for you.

Even if only one question is marked very low it can be enough of a problem to seriously affect your emotional health and wellbeing. If your scores are low seek my support, so that you can start to help yourself!

Please send me an ENA Keith

PS if you would like the Mental Well-being Appraisal (MWA) too please state so in your message to me.

Notes:

* Individual client data is gathered before assessment and at each subsequent session by self-administration using web based ‘pragmatic tracker’ software (from the ‘Manyother’ team), either remotely via email link or on arrival at the office.

** This audit is not intended as psychological or psychiatric diagnosis, but is intended to help you discover your own needs

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AA4 – Mental Wellbeing Appraisal (MWA)

The Mental MWA is a based on a well-known and researched technique** that is popular because it enables an individual to appraise their health, assess their strengths and monitor their progress. In that way MWA is responsive to your meaningful change.

The MWA is very simple to request and administer (see below).

Two elements of good mental well-being

The MWA reflects growing consensus that mental wellbeing consists of two key and easy to understand dimensions: feeling good and functioning well.

  1. Feeling good means, we feel calm, confident and in command.
  2. Functioning well means that we have a healthy sense of achievement, acceptance and accolade.

Personalised and collaborative approach

In this way, any therapeutic coaching technique intervention is highly individualised, based on the content of the client’s unique problem pattern.

This leads to discussion and agreement between Keith and the client. There is no set amount of treatment sessions; length and frequency of treatment is negotiated between Keith and the client based upon their progress and ongoing need.

Please send me the MWA Keith

PS if you would like the Emotional Needs Audit (ENA) too please state so in your message to me.

Notes:

* Individual client data is gathered before assessment and at each subsequent session by self-administration using web based ‘pragmatic tracker’ software (from the ‘Manyother’ team), either remotely via email link or on arrival at the office.

** A seven-item version, the Short Warwick–Edinburgh Mental Well-Being Scale (SWEMWBS) was resolved in 2009 using Rasch modelling. This offers superior interval scaling to WEMWBS [5]. Robust measurement properties combined with brevity make SWEMWBS popular for monitoring mental wellbeing in populations.

*** This appraisal is not intended as psychological or psychiatric diagnosis, but is intended to help you discover your own strengths.

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II1 – Get Calm, Clear & Co-operative

Diagram Tree

Often clients choose to move behind the immediate stress issue and develop a long term personal approach to their lives.

Get Calm

After identifying  and assessing the stress problem, the first phase is to get calm, for which their are a range of simple and easily applied techniques.

From this place it is straightforward to feel grounded and to grow.

Get Clear

Means understanding your goals (purpose) and being able to draw down on, and provide support to and from, your community of peers, which also includes how you make good sense of how you interface with them i.e. what is your inter-view? (note: this is an important concept in any career, job or professional interview you may attend).

Once you understand how you interface with ‘others’, the next phase is to your self-view and life view (i.e. how you make good sense of you and the way the world works.

Co-operation

Intelligent co-operation is the straightforward concept, which stressed people often forget or fail to engage with, that when we work with others, life is much more at ease.

A combination of the various ways in which we engage with us enables us to be sensibly stretched, to operate with eustress (see side bar on Stress Test) and avoid becoming strained or distressed. This is an optimal functioning mode called being an ‘adept’.

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II2 – Stress, Trauma & Anxiety Resolved – The Rewind Technique

traumatised lady

What is it?

Clients claim it works ‘like magic’ to resolve feelings of panic, settle nightmares and calm anxiety, quickly, effectively and pragmatically.

The gentle and non-invasive, non-intrusive rewind technique or the fast phobia cure, has been refined from Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) called it the VK dissociation technique. V stands for visual, the K for kinaesthetic (or sensations) and both affect the feelings that can plague sufferers.

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How Simple is it?

It is a simple process, easily explained without any ‘psychobabble’ which enables clients to measure their own improvement, through:

  • increased confidence
  • more positive mood
  • ability to explain the trauma/stress calmly
  • no more fear
  • no more flashbacks
  • better sleep

The Rewind Technique Process:

The rewind technique should be carried out by an experienced practitioner and is only performed once a person is in a safe and comfortable state of deep relaxation.

When they are fully and calmly rested, they are encouraged to bring their anxiety to the surface and then are calmed down again by being guided to recall or imagine a place where they feel totally safe and at ease. Their relaxed state is the deepened and they are asked to imagine that, in their special safe place, they have a TV set or other device with a screen, and a remote control.

They are asked to imagine floating to one side, out of body, and watch themselves watching the screen, without actually seeing the picture (known as double disassociation). They watch themselves watching a ‘film’ of the traumatic even that is still affecting them. The film begins at a point before the trauma occurred and ends at a point at which the trauma is over, and they feel safe again.

They are then asked, in their imagination, to float back into their body and experience themselves going swiftly backwards through the trauma, from safe point to safe point, as if they were a character in a video that is being rewound. They then watch the same images but as if on a TV screen while pressing the fast-forward button (disassociation).

All this is repeated back and forth, at whatever speed feels comfortable, and as many times as needed, till the scenes evoke no emotion from the client.

Rehearse a Positive Outcome

If the difficult or feared circumstance are ones that will be confronted again in the future  the person is asked, while still relaxed, to rehearse and see themselves doing so confidently.

Safe, Private and Confidential

Besides being safe, quick, and painless, the technique has the advantage of being non-voyeuristic. Intimate details do not have to be made public nor discussed nor even shared with Keith. It is safe, private and confidential and drama free, ask Keith.

Calm Lady

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LS1 – Experience, Education & Emotional Intelligence

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LS2 – Advanced Balanced Life

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LS3 Transition

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